To a limited extent, we live in a democracy. Everyone does — some more than others. Democracy is how people live together.
Like gravity, democracy obeys a strict set of laws. Without understanding these laws, we strap on a flimsy set of wings expecting to fly. We call the resulting trauma, “Democracy.”
For starters, let’s dismiss the primary tenet of democracy as we have been led to misunderstand it. Democracy is not defined by voting. Democracy is replaced by voting. In a democracy, everyone plays, not just the winners. Voting draws a line. You lose what’s on the wrong side of it.
Everyone plays defines democracy. But that’s not enough. Other laws must also be obeyed for democracy to work. Here’s a short list of laws to consider.
Safety
Physical, emotional, economic. Expect not to get hit by a car, be robbed, beaten, yelled at, insulted, discounted, intimidated, bombed, made miserable, or poor.
Responsibility
Act according to your values. Question your beliefs.
Freedom
Choose your own thoughts and behaviors. Avoid the urge to coerce or cajole.
Participation
Participate freely. Allow others to do the same.
Privacy
Know when you are alone and unobserved. Trust that a confidence will not spread.
Friendship
Make friends, not enemies. Be a good friend.
Respect
People spend their entire lives creating themselves. See their work. There’s a lot to see. And a lot you won’t see. People are better than you think.
Honesty
Share your truth. Try to be accurate. Ask questions. For fallible humans, questions are more truthful than answers. And more interesting. Keep your mind open to learning.